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I guess I could argue that Italian sausage was what got me into that whole pregnant situation in the first place. Kind of befitting that it would also be what I remember most about my first labor and delivery twelve years ago.
I had just gotten home from work, and grocery shopping, and pumping my own gas that day, when SPLASH! My water broke all over the driveway.
We called my doctor and followed her instructions to get to the hospital right away. (They wanted to make sure I hadn’t just peed myself . . . as if I didn’t know the difference. Sha!)
Several hours of “Shouldn’t you buy me flowers first?” invasive exams later, we were sent back home to await my contractions.
That’s when the fun really began, because waiting for me at home were my 70-year-old Italian in-laws urging me to eat something . . . I would need my strength!
They were there to help because my husband had thrown out his back playing 36 straight holes of golf a few weeks earlier and was completely incapacitated.
(Oh, can you hear that? It’s the world’s smallest violin playing a rousing rendition of the “You ASSHOLE!” sonata in F sharp.)
Yeah, you know all those last minute tasks a pregnant lady needs help with, like installing the car seat, putting the crib together, reaching her shoes? None of those things got done at my house.
In fact, the day I was released from the hospital, my new baby, my labial icepack, and I had to sit on a bench outside for over half an hour while Mr. Back Spasm struggled with the car seat installation. Good times.
My in-laws were actually a Godsend, in spite of the fact that our little California bungalow was much too small for all of us. And by all of us, I mean four adults and the cloud of old man farts that were my father-in-law’s constant companion.
But Mom was extremely helpful around the house and kept us all very well fed. The night I went into labor, she cooked Italian sausage and peppers for dinner.
It was delicious. I ate two helpings.
Look, I didn’t know!
Life lesson: epidurals and Italian sausage and peppers do not good bedfellows make.
Unless, of course, you don’t mind your b-hole acting like a Play-DOH Fuzzy Pumper Barber Shop extruder while you’re pushing.
About 18 hours later, two nurses lifted my hips and changed the paper under me like I was a paraplegic puppy. I turned to my husband and croaked in my semi-conscious voice: “Oh my God, did I just poop?”
“Yes,” he answered with his mouth, his eyes closed tightly against the sight he would never be able to unsee. “Actually, you’ve been pooping for a while.”
Score one for the passive aggressive Italian MIL.
My healthy, albeit cone-headed baby boy emerged with the rest of my dinner shortly thereafter and nothing else really mattered.
My husband, surely exhausted from having to be on his feet and repeatedly remind me to breathe and relax so many times, went home and slept in his own bed and ate his mother’s home cooked breakfast the next day.
I figure having to watch me crap myself repeatedly in front of a room full of strangers was the least I could do to even the score.
Originally published by In The Powder Room, March 2012. Reprinted with permission.
Leslie Marinelli is a writer, wife, mother of three, toilet humor aficionada, and transplanted Pittsburgher trapped in the suburbs of Atlanta. She is the Editor-in-Chief of In The Powder Room and blogs at The Bearded Iris: A Recalcitrant Wife and Mother Tells All. Leslie is an Erma Bombeck Writers’ Workshop Humorist of the Month, a BlogHer Humor Voice of the Year for 2013 and 2012, and a Babble Top 100 Mom Blogger of 2011. She is also the editor and co-author of the #1 Amazon top-rated and best-selling women’s humor anthology, “You Have Lipstick on Your Teeth.” Connect with her on Facebook and Twitter @TheBeardedIris.